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    Self-actualization Let the tasks for the day announce themselves for your contemplation. Maybe you can do this in the morning, as you sit on the edge of your bed. Maybe you can try, the night before, when you are preparing to sleep. Ask yourself for a voluntary contribution. If you ask nicely, and listen carefully, and don’t try any treachery, you might be offered one.

    Do this every day for a while. Then do it for the rest of your life. Soon you will find yourself in a different situation. Now you will be asking yourself, habitually, “what could I do, that I would do, to make Life a little better”.
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    The article is inspired by Jordan B Peterson

    please leave your thoughts in the comment section.



    1. September 3, 2018 / 1:17 am

      This is sooo on-point dear! Self-actualization is definitely the key! Thanks for the great read.

      Jessica | notjessfashion.com

      • gracejackobsen
        September 3, 2018 / 7:18 am

        Thank you so much for your response!

    2. January 9, 2019 / 1:20 pm

      I can’t get over it, you are absolutely gorgeous and so well spoken! I feel every piece of advice on a deeper level! Thank you for sharing this with us!

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